ClickNSmart Team
“Can I get a 4.0 GPA and also a girlfriend at the same time?” This is a question that most of us as a student will ask. Most of the time, we meet a smart student in our class, but he or she does not have a girlfriend or a boyfriend since what he/ she does is mostly just studying; this kind of person may lack social intelligence as he or she does not socialize much with others. However, occasionally we meet a student with 4.0 GPA who is currently dating; now, this is very special and we want to know “What’s the secret to this student success?”
I had a chance to interview 5 of my friends, whom I consider geniuses from universities like UCLA, Harvard, Columbia and UC Berkeley, about the secret to their success in maintaining a 4.0 GPA and in maintaining a romantic dating relationship. Below is the summary of their secrets:
1) Time management is crucial - you need to schedule when to study and also when to spend time with your boyfriend or girlfriend, for example: maybe you study and finish all your homework during weekdays and spend the weekend with your boyfriend or girlfriend.
2) Focus, Don’t wander around when studying! - with all the hype of social networking sites like Facebook and MySpace, some students may get distracted and lose concentration when studying and update their social network account simultaneously. You need to know when to seriously concentrate studying and when to take a break. It is perfectly okay to login to your social network account after you finish studying.
3) Study Efficiently - It sounds like a common sense, but many student missed this point. You should read all of the lecture and reading materials first, before you attempting to do your assignments. If you get stuck, seek help from your teacher, professors or classmates. This will save a lot of your time.
4) Communicate Often everyday - It is important to communicate to your boyfriend or girlfriend often everyday. Brief communication via text message, twitter, phone call, or other media can signal that you care about your partner. Notice that often does not meat excessive; excessive contact may distract your study and also bother your partner as well.
5) Have Faith and Trust your partner - this maybe difficult in the early stage of dating relationship; however, it is extremely important that you trust your partner. Jealousy can creates conflicts. Resolving conflicts can consume a lot of your time and thus affecting your performance at school as well. Point number 4 above “Communicate often” can help to build trust and faith in your dating relationship.
I have shared with you all of my friend’s tactics. Hopefully this article will motivate and answer some of your questions and doubts about getting good grades and maintaining a dating relationship simultaneously.
ClickNSmart Team
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August 31st, 2009 at 4:06 am
My beloved Soma wisnu putera,
i welcome you with great respect and great love.
first let me congratulate you for your lovely name
i am from India , in my great country wisnu putera= meaning
vishu putera, son of god vishnu,
the lord of GENERATOR
the word GOD , GENERATOR, ORGANISER, DESTROYER
It is wonderful of you my dear to share to care
My only son wanted to pursue his post graduate degree and then PhD .He s is in his final year B.E( Mechanical) in state of tamilnadu, India , from a very reputed university,
friend can you guide me if your time permits,
what are the good universities in USA, for MS mechanical engineering, specializing in ROBOTICS, OR MECHATRONICS,
and i am looking for financial aid too,
as the cost of education will be very expensive,
i am a farmer , hence my income will not be sufficient to support my only son education.in USA,
He will be appearing for his GRE and Toefl exams,
he is standing first in his class
his percentage of marks right from his first year has consistently 85 % and above
friend can you guide me further
as i have no one to guide me
your response to my query will be great help
in fact your reply will touch a life with HOPE
thank you for you blog.
keep writing
keep sharing
what is life with out sharing and caring
i wish you abundant of peace and wellness
love
easwaran
India
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August 31st, 2009 at 1:26 pm
hi greetings
in my earlier posting i errored
the lord vishnu is an organizer god
not generator
the error is regretted
cheers
easwaran
India
October 17th, 2009 at 6:57 am
How about a boyfriend?
October 29th, 2009 at 9:57 pm
I think for boyfriend, you can do similar strategy =)
November 6th, 2009 at 5:46 pm
i have a girlfriend, and we’ve been together for 20 months since high school
she’s not only one of the smartest girl i ever known, but simply the smartest. she won two national competitions in statistics and accounting, also a computer IT research and design competition. she also awarded as the best graduates and best student from my senior high. nevertheless, she can still have fun with her girlfriends, doing sleepover, shopping, girls-day out, and also spend enough quality time with me. as long as ur committed to ur study, u’ll be able to manage ur time well, set ur priority, and also do have fun! 
she once told me that without her bestfriends and me, she wont be able to achieve all her incredible achievements. her family, friends and boyfriend are her best motivation to perform her best and make us proud 
now she’s studying abroad with scholarship. i do really miss her..
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